How to Actually Pull it Off (Without Chaos)
1. Count your Bridesmaids
First things first: how many people are in your bridal party? This will help you figure out how many colours to include. As a general rule, 4-6 colours look beautifully balanced for a group of 6-8 bridesmaids. Fewer than that? Stick to 2-3 colours for a more cohesive feel. More than 8? Go big or go home with a colour wheel. Just ground it in a similar tone or fabric.
2. Pick your Colour Palette
Choose a palette that reflects your wedding vibe, season or location. Want a modern, romantic look? Go for soft tones like sage, dusty rose, mauve and champagne. Planning a spring/summer wedding? Think pastel tones like baby blue, butter yellow, baby pink and light green. Think about how the colours will photograph together, not just individually.
3. Discuss who suits what
Different colours mean you can actually dress people in shades that suit them. That friend with olive skin might glow in burnt orange, while your fair-skinned cousin shines in soft lilac. Chat with your bridesmaids, they'll appreciate being part of the decision and it's a fun process to discuss together.
4. Create a mini mood board for each colour
This is the key to great success. Once you've picked your colours, create a quick mood board for each one. Show pictures of your ideal vibe, silhouette, fabric, or anything that helps showcase your vision. This will help your bridesmaids know what to and what not to go for. You can use Pinterest, a Canva doc, or even an Instagram Saved collection to keep things easy and visual.
5. Share a style guide
Let your girls know your expectations, if you have any! Do you want floor length? Is satin preferred? Are florals okay? Giving light structure helps avoid clashing styles, and still leaves them freedom to choose a dress they love. Even adding links to example dresses or online shops you like.
Bonus tip: Create mini swatch cards or send out hex codes to help your girls match tones without stress.
6. Have a check-in moment
Once everyone's got a few options, do a group check-in. It's so important to see the line-up together before the big day to make sure each dress complies with the colour palette correctly. Make a fun evening out of it! It's a great excuse for a girl's night and lets you make any last tweaks before the big day.
Pro Tip: Do a trial look with each bridesmaid. We're talking hair and makeup, the full look! This gives everyone the chance to see the expected look on the day and helps visualise what works and possibly what doesn't.